Overview of the past year, 5 lessons I learned

In just under a month, I will begin my second year of teaching. This past year has been full of fun, emotion, and stress. Here are a few things that I learned this past year. 

* Each child has their own story, they each have their own likes, dislikes and passions. You cant lump them all into one group. But you have to find a way to love something about each one. Even the most challenging of kids have unique bright talents and it's up to you to figure them out. For example, one student was always goofing off in class, rather than getting annoyed at every incident, I learned to allow times for goofing off, but also tamed it when it was not time. Some kids liked the dance breaks, silly songs, and talent shows we had, others didn't. But by allowing these fun special times, I let the kids who enjoyed it time to express themselves. Time time to get to know each child's likes and dislikes. Use this knowledge to your advantage. 

* Don't (always) sweat the small stuff

The kid who taps his pencil, the one who giggles at everything... the ones who want to sing the lyrics to disney movies every time you say "let it go".... LET THEM! Don't be so uptight about everything because your kids wont feel comfortable in expressing themselves. There is a time and place fore everything.... and occasional Frozen karaoke parties are okay, Let it go!! Join in the fun and sing along. They'll think your the greatest if you do. 

* Be patient, be consistent, but always find room for grace. 

This is a must! Students may kick and scream every time they have a card pulled, begging you to give them mercy. Be consistent, that behavior is not allowed and until it's controlled, there will be consequences. By being patient and consistent (and also keeping parents informed) the child will learn that you mean business and will stop the tantrums. They will pull the card as instructed and take the consequences. When that occurs, you can find room for grace when you deem appropriate. They will respect and appreciate you. 

* Talk to other teachers

You're not alone in this journey of teaching. Don't bury yourself in your work that you don't form a relationship with your coworkers. Visit other teachers when time allows, stop in and say hi, get to know them. When you need help, or they need help, there will be a (hopefully) mutual bond. 

* Pray for your students, and their parents

I spent a lot of time praying for my students, their situations, their attitudes... It helps change your perspective and your attitude toward the situation or student. God will give you wisdom to deal with every situation, no matter how big. :)